Archive for the ‘80’ Category

its been a while

time for lots of fun updates. sorry i totally slacked on updating this project this winter. i did a decent job of working on some of the items on the list, but not recording what i’ve done. so i have to play some catch up. i’ll probably have one more catch up post.

#28- support local “stuff”:  i went to see a local band “bobs days off” play twice- once in december and once in february. i’ve been to a few local bars and restaurants- barrets ale house, rogers, playoffs pub and the grad student bar at brown. and i went bowling- yay- at a local alley.

#29- can you believe i actually had to go back and look through my planner to figure this one out? i have a super amount to catch you up on this one! my goal was to support a local NEW independent business every month. i haven’t updated since october so here goes:
october: i bought my dress from “wishing well” a local bridal salon for trisha’s wedding
november: we went to a tranny karaoke club in boston then the club revolution for trisha’s bachelorette party
december: we went to the local restaurant “lobster pot” for trish’s rehersal dinner, and i also stood at hotel monacco in alexandria, va for NYE. i totally loved the hotel and recommend it if anyone is going to be in that area.
january: i went to the “stork connection” with my family to watch my future niece for my sister-in-law’s 3D ultrasound

#30- i’m supposed to ask a stranger out on a date. does kissing a random extremely handsome man on stage then later exchanging numbers, kissing some more and going out for a late night snack at like 3am count as “asking a new man out on a date?”  does it make a difference that we went bowling the next week (in truth it was mere circumstance, & i didn’t ask him to go bowl with me)?  i think y’all need to be the judge of this one, because i honestly am not sure whether to allow it or not!

#66- my grace in small things challenge (to write what i’m grateful for every day for one year) will be over soon. i can’t even believe it. i’ve only 12 more days left!

#69- write 100 letters to friends. since the last update, i had sent 4 letters. i’m up to number 6. i’ve sent a letter to my friends stephan and to phampants! i’m also working on my 7th letter right now, but i’ll count that one later when its actually finished and mailed.

#80- start wearing red lipstick. well i wore red lipstick the night i kissed the handsome stranger on stage (#30) so thats got to mean something, right?

dumping info all over this blog.

gosh. i doubt i even have any readers anymore. its been so long since i updated…plus, i moved my blog over from blogger to wordpress in october, so i’m sure that change left a few people in the dust.
is anybody out there, or am i writing this just for myself?

anyway, i’ll give you an update, but there are some better updates coming (with pictures!)

#9 i have been continuously organizing the pile of bills i have sitting around. i just don’t seem to devote enough time to doing this though. so after i put a few things away, i end up making more piles. ugh. one day.

# 13. same goes for organizing and printing my digital photos! this goal might take me a lifetime to complete! if anything it just makes me want to delete half of the pictures on my computer just so i can be done sorting through them.

# 16. i seriously thought i made a friend who was over the age of 70…but then i learned this person was only 60. i was wayyyy off. oh well, i’ve just got to keep trying.

# 62. i tried to accomplish an actual nablopomo in both november and december. total fail! in november i got sick and almost missed the day’s deadline a thousand times. i barely tried. in december i gave it another shot, and i was kicking ASS! and then one day (i think the 14th?) i totally forgot to post and didn’t realize it until i went to post the day after that (the 15th?) so yeah. big failure on my part. oh well, i need to do 2 more to complete this goal, so hopefully i can actually complete one of those 🙂

#66. today i am officially on day #292 of my grace in small things challenge. you can check out the specifics on my other blog. 

#74. hmm, recapping: in 2009 i attended 5 red sox games at fenway park. 2 i already wrote about on this blog (april 17 and may 8). on 9/8 i brought my best friend to fenway for a “three days after my birthday sox game” on 9/16 i went to fenway with my grandfather and we sat right on the side of pesky pole!!! it was fantastic 🙂 it could possibly be one of my top 5 fenway experiences. then on 10/1 i went with another good friend to fenway. it was only her 2nd time! plus every game i call her during “sweet caroline” so to actually be there and sing it with her was PRICELESS! she will absolutely be attending with me again this year! anyway for 2010 i bought tickets to 5 games so far. i might sell 1-2 of those games depending on whats happening in my world. i also absolutely want to drive down to baltimore and watch the sox play down there too. so i guess i’ll just have to keep you updated.

75. i’ve been in the process of applying to grad school again. it makes me want to vomit. i should have all my applications sent out by feb 1, 2010 which means i need to seriously work my ass off this month, because they still need a lot of work.

80. i’ve been attempting to wear red lipstick lately. i’ll totally try to post a picture soon.

88. and 91. i’ve been working my ass off so that i can finally say i’ve paid off all my credit cards and my car. although…its the holidays and i had to buy xmas presents. that doesn’t mean i still didn’t kick ass at paying the bills. it just means it’s still a hard process. my credit cards should be paid off in full by the end of august 2010 if i can simply stick with my plan…and not charge any more! so i guess that means 8 more months of being broke!

i am kicking ass…excuse the french ;)

alright folks…
you ready for your update?
first, even though i am probably being too hard on myself, i should say i decided to be “honest” and take some of the things on my list which are currently in italics (which means i am working on them) OUT of italics. i know i am trying to take on a whole bunch at once, but i don’t want to make it look like i am working on things which i really am not. i obviously will get back to work on them… maybe even real soon as i start my spring cleaning… but for now, they are coming out of italics.

those things were:
#10 (organizing bookshelves)
#21 (getting fenway trained)
#40 (vision board)
#64 (writing book reviews)

okay, moving on to some super stupendous news! i finished another item!
#5: leaving a $10 tip for a meal less than $10 dollars.
i didn’t realize yesterday that the bill was “supposed” to be under $10, so i guess if you want to be technical, i didn’t complete this number “correctly.” but then today, when i sat to write this entry, i though. when the hell am i going to go out and spend less than $10 on my bill? umm, i wish. that would be one pretty thing, but i doubt that will happen. so yesterday, i had a real small bill ($16.99) and left a $15.00 dollar tip. our bartender was EXCELLENT, which i barely ever see anymore,, so she deserved it.

okay, so here are the items i am currently working on:
#3 i donated 300 grains for rice. i was bored at work, and it was the end of the day, so i figured, what the heck… lets play some trivia! now i only have 99,700 grains to go!

#18 eat at new to me restaurants… well, i try NOT to go to chain restaurants while working on this number, but i did go to smokey bones this week, and it is a new to me restaurant. actually, this is where i left my $15 tip! also, i went to a restaurant called Fours in boston before the celtics game. wow, what a wait! but the food was pretty good, and there were a lot of hot guys there! so this brings me to 5 out of my 20 restaurants… which means i am 1/4 complete. cool 🙂

#28 support local independent businesses: i went to somerset creamery, a local amazing ice cream shop about a week ago. i wanted to go on the day they opened, but i missed it and went about a week after they opened…. and i STILL had to wait in a HUGE line!

#29: support one local new to me independent business every month. in march, i went to Depolzelli Bakery to pick up some bakery pizza and treats. the emerson’s were up from GA and it was dave’s birthday, so we went to get him so special treats for his party 🙂

#35: i started working on my goal to take 100 specific pictures. so far i have completed numbers 19, 60 and 63.

the first one i took is number nineteen: within

the next one i took is number sixty: red (i can’t figure out which one of the next two i like best. y’all have any input?)
then here is number sixty three: decrepit
maybe i’ll post a few more later. i’ve got to look at my pictures and see if i have any others.

#39: i am ready to begin my cork frame. well, not really. but i do have my very first cork! i got it while i was drinking with amy and joie at amy’s apartment. it was a fun night. amy pretty much played dress up the entire time (with clothes she just bought to go on a cruise) and we all drank! i got some great pictures too!

#43: i’ve done a good job keeping up with my bimonthly pictures. in the one above, i had just got home from work and had to run in my house from my car because it was downpouring! i think this picture was taken 4/3/09

i’m the above picture, i am all a mess. i’m trying to build a desk and take a pic all at the same time!

#62 and #66: i’m excited about this one, because i find it very challenging!!! i am doing another nablopomo! april 2009– but this one is difficult! see, i am combining my nablopomo and its theme: growing (up) with my daily grace in small things posts!…..and instead of listing five things i am thankful for everyday, i am listing one, and writing about it more in detail. THAT MEANS I AM DOING NUMBERS 62 AND 66 AT ONCE! wow.

#63: i am still doing excellent writing in my journal every week. its actually nice to see how much i have actually recorded in my journal. i am really glad i am doing this goal! oh, and i am on week 15!

#74: i am going to my first red sox game (of the year) in 7 days! yahoo. i’m sure i will post all about this on my other blog, and i can guarantee i will take loads of pictures to post on here!

#80: i am working on finding the perfect red lipstick. i did find one i *like*. i don’t LOVE it, but it is okay. i’ll have to ask amy for the name, because it is her lipstick. also, i think sarah might have taken a picture of me at some point the night i wore it out, so if so i will ask her to send it to me, so i can post it on this blog! BUT i have also found some AWFUL lipsticks that don’t look good on me. i have a family member who sells avon, so she got me this HUGE sample of lipsticks, haha maybe as a joke i will try on every red lipstick and take a picture and post it on here. trust me. with skin as pale as mine, i look like a clown sometimes!

#83: well if you read my other blog, you will know that i have recently got some possibly bad medical news. basically one of my issues is that i am extremely deficient in vitamin D. so since last week i have been taking thousands of mg daily. so, i am on day 8 of taking a vitamin daily for a month! lol. i need to do this to be healthy 😉

#88: pay off credit cards. well, lets just say i am waiting on this one. i applied for a personal loan with an EXTREMELY LOW interest rate. i think i will find out the beginning of nest week if i got it. if i did, then i will be able to completely take the balances off all my cards, and then i SHOULD be able to pay my loan off within a year. how freaking wonderful is that??!??!

#90: i am also still working on trying to download my bills on a spreadsheet and budget. i am doing pretty well, but because it is really detailed i need to just sit down one day and enter everything… that way i will be up to date and pretty much done with this goal. then all i will have to do is stick to the spreadsheet and budget!